weekend of domestication

Being pregnant is difficult. I know how some people really love the experience, but it's making it really hard to be normal. I hate when people tell me about what's happening to me, what will happen to me, or even try to offer advice. First of all, I know my body is going through changes -- you don't think I noticed that I gained 15 lbs? Secondly, I know my life is going to be different -- as if I don't already have to stop drinking and staying out all night. And finally, I don't need any advice. Fine, whatever you did or wish you did -- that's your opinion, I'm not you: I don't need more date nights with DH, we spend lots of time together. I don't need more rest, I rest a lot and it will never be enough. I don't need to stop buying baby stuff, I'll buy what I want, chances are you wouldn't have bought it anyway. Glad that's off my chest.

This weekend, DH has to work. Unfortunately, we have so much house stuff to take care of, I can't just lazily lounge around all weekend waiting for him to come home. Hence the title, "weekend of domestication".

Plans for Friday:
He thought it'd be fun to bake cookies as a surprise for work. Although it'll be a long shift of nerdy work stuff, at least there will be delicious baked goodness! I figure some Oatmeal Ghirardelli chocolate cookies will help the hours fly by. I haven't made cookies in a while, I'm actually looking forward to this :)

Plans for Saturday:
Early start, DH doesn't have to go in until the evening, but we do have a lot of house decisions to make. Let's see: pick out laminate floor color, pick out carpet, measure out specs for custom build cabinetry, select roof color, select exterior paint color... wow. I knew it was a lot, it just seems overwhelmingly so when it's listed out. He tells me not to stress out so much, yet how do you not stress when these decisions have to be made NOW and they will determine the NEXT 30 YEARS. Okay, so maybe not 30, but I don't plan on making any major changes until most of the mortgage is paid. I'm thinking we get a really early start and have breakfast. I need some sort of motivation to get me through the day.

The rest of the time:
As we don't know how long he'll actually have to work, we can't make other plans. I do have activities to busy myself, though. I'm really excited!
1) Sew a hospital gown.
We've been going to "Expectant Parent Classes" at the hospital and have been learning about the different stages of pregnancy, labor, and delivery. I acknowledge I'm pretty shallow, which is why it shouldn't come as a surprise that I do NOT want to wear a used hospital gown. Gross. There's all sorts of fluids on that thin piece of fabric. I'm sure they wash it and bleach the hell out of it, but that doesn't change where it's been. It's gross enough that I will be lying in bed sheets full of that stuff, I don't think I can stand to be in dressing that someone might have died in. I decided I will make my own hospital gown. I found a blog of another mom that made her own from the design and am totally inspired.
2) Sew a nursing cover.
Did you know these things cost between $20 and $80?! It's a rectangle piece of fabric with corset boning and a strap sewn to one edge. I purchased my supplies and the total came out to <$10, and that's including two pieces of fabric (so I can make it reversible, most are not), D-rings (so I can adjust the neckline, some are just knotted), and grosgrain ribbon. And no, I'm not using the nursing cover as a way to feed my child in public. I am going on the theory that without it, baby may get distracted and take longer to feed. I take long enough to eat, can you imagine how long it would take for both of us to eat in succession?
3) Craft Thank You favors.
My co-workers are throwing a small baby shower for me in May. Usually as a thank-you, the parents bring in some sort of goodie bag for those that contribute to the group gift. Some people have brought in homemade Energy Bars, gourmet chocolate squares, candy bars, and even assorted grab bags of treats. Since I am the office "Martha", I have to raise the bar. I was considering some type of fancy baked confection -- but in my line of work, you can't guarantee people to be in the office to get it. It may sit for weeks unnoticed. I will be crafting something with my Cricut. Not sure what yet, but I do have a new packet of cardstock and I plan on heading to the craft store later to pick up some small embellishments.
4) Crocheting cute stuff.
A few months back, DH was on this kick that crocheting baby apparel would be so cute. I ended up teaching myself how to crochet, while his attempt was a wadded ball of yarn. He wanted to make a beanie, and after restarting a youtube tutorial about 300 times he gave up. I started working on an amigurumi project. A mini pink and beige stuffed bear. It's partially done. I have a head, body, ears, muzzle, and arms? I think I just need the legs and some eye beads and I'm done. It's been a work in progress for a few months. I'm going to finish it eventually. I'm also going to try to figure out how to crochet little objects to attach to hair pins. I've sort of been able to make a flower, but we'll see how that goes -- after I finish this darn bear.

All right, looking forward to this weekend... lots of time, lots of projects! Or maybe I'll just sleep through it all. Haha, yeah, maybe I'll just sleep through it all.